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They sell size on Amazon. And it even has 20 vibration modes.

Hello Maya maybe I'm a leftover because I'm busy with Life!😅😂

Stay in Du Pilippines Gio, with your wife Maya and daughter. Much better for you. It's your home and your home.

Yes, you are gorgeous

Hey Maya, hope you and your family is fine. Have you considered doing some martial arts like boxing? I think that is good for you. And for Gio as well.

I don't agree with this guy at all and I've been traveling to the PI since the late 1980s. I don't want a girl who works at McD's because that's a symbol of not having any formal education so what are we going to talk about? Tons of guys want them poor and uneducated so that they can basically marry a maid that provides sex - how boring! I prefer a college-educated girl with a well-playing job so that we can combine our incomes and really be well off. The educatoinal piece is good so that you have something to talk about besides mundance subjects. Too many Filipinas know nothing beyond their families, phone, or TV!

Hmm yeah sure. That's your narrative expectations. All men are you listening to this? All simp! Start making prenup and your last will signature.

Foreigners adapt to feeling like a "big" fish after they can't get anywhere back in their original country, and they never learned how big fish interact with each other so they end up creating drama. Big fish have bigger "territories" or they end up fighting when territory boundaries aren't respected.

I agree that being married to a Filipina is great. I had met a Filipina online who was 8 years younger than me. Who had to leave college after her first year due to a lack of financial means. I went to visit her in the Philippines, where one of my Filipino friends introduced me to a friend of his daughter who was 20 years my junior with a teacher's degree. They were both very attractive woman for their ages. My friend attempted to get me to switch partners. My having a Masters degree didn't influence my staying with the woman closer to my age i just found more in common with her. Either Filipinas make wonderful and caring wives.

The problem I have dating Filipinas is a woman leaves her family to become ONE with her man, NOT the man becoming one with her family. The package deal is a toxic trend that most foreigners aren't aware of. Supporting a whole family is the most ridiculous financial abuse and having people interfere in one's relationship is a deal breaker. Not to mention unannounced visits and uninvited guests to come freeload is disrespectful and insensitive. A man should have his culture honored not the other way around.

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So 304s are world wide, no worries, women are definitely not wife material.

I want to die

Traditionally both men and women don’t have much. In the west and in china the culture has changed the focus to the person who has more money has more power in relationships. That’s improper. I believe that the order in the family should be God, Husband, Wife and then Children. This was the order set up by God but the west has replaced Gods principles with the love of money. Women and men are capable of earning lots of money and that has confused many people. Also men don’t necessarily want a woman that is needy. Most men want a woman that values him and their family. It’s more about traditional values rather than money.

Hey Gio & Maya, It’s me Pete, another great blog. I agree with 90% of everything you shared. Maya, if you’re talking about really “old school” men, who have that extremely old fashioned tradition of women belonging in the kitchen, barefoot & pregnant, it’s what really “old fashioned, old school” men want, in a Filipina. I’m sure there are a lot of men like me, that would prefer a woman like 🫠Maya🫠. Although you are young, you’re very intelligent, and can hold your own, in any conversation. Also, I believe you make your “own” money, in your work from home business. A woman like you, but in her mid 50’s to early 60’s, is the “only” woman for me, 😎😉❤️. Gio, you, and I were both stationed in Germany. You near Heidelberg, and I, right across from the Frankfurt airport, at Rhine Main Air Base. The Italian philosophy, is also the same in Germany, and probably throughout Europe. Germans don’t live to work, they work to live, 😎😉❤️.

wow I would love to be there lol

finde me in sport bar near why not and we will speak

I can care less if a woman makes more than me. If the woman I'm with has career aspirations, I'm supporting her so she can achieve her goals. If she wants to be a housewife, that's fine also. Either path is fine as long as we both make time for the relationship. And social media is changing women all over the world. They all have FB, IG, TikTok, OnlyFans, Snapchat, etc. Western values and influence is spreading; I think the Philippines will be very westernized in 3-4 years, especially in the larger cities (BGC, Makati, etc).

She needs a spanking

I want to feel like I have a partner, NOT a competitor.There has to be a contribution to the relationship, on the part of both parties. If I have to bring something to the table, and I have to bring the table, and I have to bring the house in which the table resides, why do I need you sitting at the table?

Educated Filipinas in the big cities do tend to be westernized, and do have that mind set. They are looking for a guy that "brings more to the table", than they do. Also many women are resentful when they earn more than their partner. They do not realize that one of the reasons that they have been able to do so well is due to the fact that, in addition to their ambition and hard work, it is their partners support has allowed them the opportunity to advance. Instead of appreciating what was done to help them, there is anger.

In China it's also divorced women who are considered as a leftover women. I dated 2 younger Chinese women here in the USA. One in her 30's who was widowed and one in her 40's who was divorced. I'm 66. Both mentioned they were considered a leftover women. Chinese divorce is on the uptick big time...as for money status...yes men here in the USA could care less about what a women makes. ...Gio is spot on that...but he is too far removed from the USA now about wanting to be the bread winner. Unfortunately these days for the most part both the men and women have to work now in the USA just to pay the bills...the best marriages and relationships here are where the man and women are working towards each other as issues arise...there are still excellent man/women relationships here...a better than average job for the women here helps but I agree a women attorney may have what we call a boss babe mentality...and this is where relationships here do break down as rolls become blurred and confused...hypergamy is also on the upswing in the USA with at now about 50% of the women believing in it especially with younger women...it's real tough with the younger women here very much about the $$$ a man makes...and quite delusional as well.....I experience from both Chinese women I dated that they were very dialed in on the money aspect of what men have to offer...as for Filipinas one could make a case that the married but separated Filipina is a leftover women. Their limited in their men choices and without divorce....at best living with another man as bf/gf but both under risk...especially for a foreigner man. As for Asian women partners for western men the Filipinas speaking English gives the Filipina a big edge! One of the Chinese women I dated was very poor in English. A dead-end relationship.....on another topic there is a huge amount of men in the USA...mostly older men but even some younger men that have checked out of the dating game going solo!...between their dating/living experiences with women....their work...their friends...and other reasons they've put dating on their backburner for now. Thanks for sharing.

why is their so many single mother then .. I'm not buying what your saying about this subject

Leftover women are the same in ANY country. Women over the age of 30 and women who have children already regardless of their age.

I knew and know lots of filipinas but I hear this kind of false information and sugar coating all the time first nobody gv u guys and degrees in being experts in relationships so saying the filipinas are best is nit the truth there are women all over the world lets not put women down second lets not sugar coat things how filipinas are family oriented if they wer theyr won't b any single moms in filipine second wat religion they follow cos according to there religion making bastard babies is a sin so please don't throw stones on other women if u live in a glass house..we all hv issues if we don't look at our own self's and fix things we r doomed

Seems western ways are creeping into Philippines thinking...what a shame... making money the priority

No coming up for air! Lol!

My age appropriate wife of 10+ years is from Cebu. We reside in NE Texas. She has a degree,speaks 4 languages,etc. Key to our success is age appropriate since we live in the USA. Maybe if I had moved to PI a much younger wife would have worked but my wife is the best so I ain't looking for a change.

@around 8 min mark, men, especially successful men, don't care what a woman does. In fact, they prefer a woman who is is not a boss. We go to war everyday at work and don't want to do that when we come home. We don't need your money and don't want the attitude that comes with it. This may not be widely advertised but the #1 growing therapy patient in the US, and spike in prescription medications are for older women who chose career over family, have little options, and are lonely going into older age. Sad but true. This is why American men are going to the Philippines or other countries. American women are their own worst enemies. We don't need or want your money. We want a partner who understands traditional family roles and values that contribute to a successful and happy life together.

Im 55 met my girlfriend when I was in my late 40s. She is 9 years younger than me and I found that very attractive. I could never date a woman 1/2 my age or whatever. It just feels strange to me. I’m sure there are many men that feel the same. But I can say that my girlfriend is in amazing shape and takes care of her appearance. I could care less where she works. It’s not important to me .

Universally- i think men are looking for ‘respect’ and women ‘love’

I look at emotional stability, emotional maturity, emotional security, emotionally available and optimistic number one. I only date college educated women. These qualities are similar to me. Vietnamese younger women are number one for me. Very different than Filipinas. Much less drama and the culture is very different than in the Philippines that contribute to a healthy relationship

I would just like to say thanks again for both of your Vlogs. Having been following you for over three years now and have help me understand my girlfriend and now wife....

This was interesting; I wish it was longer lol

Man want peace in the relationship

A woman is a fertility object . And a man is a security object.

Awww I think it depends on perspectives, leftovers for others but a treassure to others 😊😊😊 find someone that see your worth, see your value and prioritize you no matter what. Thank you for this amazing topic Maya & Gio 🎉

I think there are many leftover Filipinas because I have met several that were the eldest of a large family where they went OfW to provide for their younger siblings to go to school and college. At the end they are typically too old for marriage and families of their own.

Maya, if you ask him a question it would be nice to hear his answer without you constantly cutting him off 😢

A lot of of us prefer Filipino women because their traditional way of life and thinking it’s really that simple relationship wise

What a sad word "leftover women". The Filipina I am going to meet in August is 35. She does not have kids and has never been married. She is not a career girl and live in the province. She is beautiful and a very kind woman.

They are becoming westernized. You can see it in the cities like Manila. So yes, I think it will be happening.

You missed the biggest point. There are simply not opportunities for Filipinas to make boatloads of cash, therefore no temptation. I think if you gave a Filipina a chance to make hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars per year pursuing a career, the temptation would be too much to ignore. Case in point: look at Filipina Pea. She’s one of the rare Filipinas who gives up all of her time to pull in probably 250 grand per year. She’s voluntarily & willingly headed to leftover woman land. My nephew who makes 80 grand once asked my why I work so much. I replied “if you had the chance to make $1M/year by working 80 hours a week, would you dive in?” Absolutely yes, he replied. Now he understands…

Social media has really changed the world forever. Best advice I can give is get a woman that is not on it, doesn’t talk to guys, and not a single mother. Preferably religious or a virgin. And of course someone honest. Also from a good big family might be good as well.

I have only just discovered this whole Filipina thing over the last couple of weeks. It is amazing how traditional many of the women there seem. I love it and it gives me joy and hope!

Nice video Maya - something that women in many countries need to think about. You only have one life to live. Prioritize the things in life that really matter. Being content with a family is a much better option than being rich and having a career and lonely.

Most guys like Gio are old school. They want a submissive yes sir type of gals. Well this isn't 1940s it yeae 2024.

Something I believe that was left out in what men are searching for... At 55 yo and seeing the changes here in the US in the past 2 decades, I think most men would just like to be seen. Acknowledged. There is also a lack of appreciation for what men bring. I'm not speaking for everyone of course, but it's a widespread reality these days.

A horny 😅ne is always a bonus!